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Time For Ecstasy

Posted by mmkeekah on December 21, 2008

Let’s celebrate the third annual Global Orgasm Day!

WHO? All Men and Women, you and everyone you know.

WHERE? Everywhere in the world, but especially in countries with weapons of mass destruction and places where violence is used in place of mediation.

WHEN? December 21st,
at 12:04 Universal Time (GMT)

WHY? To effect positive change in the energy field of the Earth through input of the largest possible instantaneous surge of human biological, mental and spiritual energy.

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Someone Else To Catch This Drift

Posted by mmkeekah on September 16, 2008

 
OMG… Megan Fox is HOT! And we share a similar outlook; Megan quoted in article saying, “”I just think that all humans are born with the ability to be attracted to both sexes.”

Read the full story:Megan Fox

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I’m Just A Travleing Keekah

Posted by mmkeekah on August 23, 2008

I’ve been quite the little traveler this year. First, I started the year by traveling to St. Louis in January with my love, Jeffery. Some of you may recall that we went to St. Louis in January 2007 right in the middle of an ice storm. We didn’t have an ice storm this year but had a wonderful time visiting with old friends.

Then in April of this year, Jeff and I visited our dear friend, Sandi, whom we both met at Camp Gaea during Laid Back Labor Day 2007. Bonus: Sandi lives in Seattle! I’d never been but I loved every minute of it. If ever I was to live anywhere else, it would be Seattle. It has mountains AND water. We were there for Sandy’s birthday weekend and celebrated with her and her dear ones the day we got in. We also made it to a very interesting swinger’s party that weekend… not a usual crowd for us but we still managed to have fun.

In May, we decided to continue the tradition from the previous year and visit a foreign country. We spent an entire week in Cancun, Mexico at an adult’s only resort. Jeff found a group of swingers online that met in Cancun yearly, so we joined and got a discount on our package. It was so incredibly awesome to be at a resort that catered to adults. No children for miles! And we could walk around naked if we wanted to! It was very cool. I will say this – never in my life have I seen so much silicone – in boobs, mouths, butts… it was weird! But we met some great folks and enjoyed ourselves immensely.

Our dear friend Cindy decided to take her boyfriend, Byron, to Vegas for his birthday at the end of June and invited us along (we were joined by other mutual friends – Andy and Julie and Don and Jamie). We spent a weekend at the Mirage hotel drinking, sunning, gambling and having a fabulous time. Vegas was more pricey than I remembered but still a good time.

In July, we went out to visit Jeff’s long time love, Dawn (or RA as we call her) and her husband, new baby, and son. They invited us down to their lake front home in Michigan City, Indiana. Seriously they were across the street from Lake Michigan! Something I’d never seen in my life up to that point. We spent the weekend celebrating Dawn’s birthday and schmoozing with old friends. We also spent a weekend in July camping in the mountains of Colorado at the aforementioned Naughty Camping. (That’s where we met Nichole – my hottie girlfriend!)

Just recently, we spent five days camping once again in the Colorado Mountains at a pagan festival called Dragonfest. Jeff hadn’t been to this particular event in ten years. We had so much fun even though it rained every day we were there. We met some really cool people who I hope we continue to be friends with – especially since they live in Colorado! It seems we always meet these great folks who don’t live anywhere near us. Luckily we got their numbers, and I’ve actually already met one of the couples, Toma and Genoa, for drinks. I just really connected with both of them – Genoa is a little hottie with gorgeous hair and a beautiful smile. And Toma. Well. Yes. Toma. At any rate, I’m making plans with one of the other wives/women we met to get us all together for drinks and dinner downtown.

And we aren’t done just yet! We have one last camping hurrah next week – our yearly trek to Camp Gaea for Laid Back Labor Day 2008! Nichole, Jeff and I are going as a thruple – our first trip. We all had so much fun shopping for new camping gear – we bought this amazing tent – I’m so excited I can barely contain all of it. But before we go camping, Nichole is taking me on a driving trip to Utah for the weekend. I’ve always wanted to see the other side of the mountains!

Really it’s only the end of August – so who’s to say we won’t be traveling more this year. It’s sure been a great year so far!

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Which Way Do You Swing?

Posted by mmkeekah on August 20, 2008

In July, my honey and I attended a swinger’s event called Naughty Camping. A bunch of swingers getting together in the woods and having a good time.

Now I know I haven’t said much about being a swinger. I think that’s cause I don’t really consider myself a swinger… even though I engage in the frivolities that the “lifestyle” permits. I’ve had time to consider why exactly I feel that way and here’s what I’ve come up with – I tend to look at monogamy, swinging, and polyamory as a spectrum of sorts. On one end of the spectrum is monogamy – one love at a time, one sexual partner for one lifetime – and the other end is polyamory- many loves at a time, mulitple sexual partners for a lifetime. And swinging is somewhere in between – not necessarily the middle but on either side of it.

Now make no mistake – this is not an evolution that I speak of – it is a spectrum. As such, people often can and will fall along different points of the spectrum depending on their situations and feelings at the time. Some people always stay on either end of the spectrum – completely black and white “I am monogamous or polyamory and nothing else” attitude. And some folks move up and down the spectrum depending on their mood, their love situation, etc. And others, well they refuse to be on either end and prefer the middle.

That’s me – middle of the road. I am polyamorous because, not only do I believe that people can have multiple, successful love relationships, I actively participate in multiple relationships (hopefully someday successfully). But I also enjoy recreational (and responsible) sex on occasion. And – if I’m honest – I can even believe in monogamy as a viable relationship style. But I am not gung ho on either side, or at any point, of the spectrum – I don’t feel a need to pick up a flag necessarily and join a side in the debate that exists out there between monogamy, swinging, and polyamory. It just seems silly to me because love is love.

When we discuss lifestyle choices – I tend to identify more with polyamory because of all I’ve stated previously and feel that my swinging is incorporated into my open lifestyle. I know many poly friends who would (and have) argued to me that swinging is so completely removed from poly that it is no way associated to poly, but I can’t agree. Because for me, swinging and poly are a part of an open relationship style – and part of my open relationship style.

So for me personally – these little swinging extravaganzas I participate in are just an extension of my poly persona. Yes, I am a slut – but I am an Ethical Slut.

So anyway, it was at the Naughty Camping where I met this wonderful woman. Completely unexpectedly met my newest love interest. And crazy as it sounds, she liked me. AND she liked Jeff. Neither one of us expected to meet a potential love interest for one of us, let alone both of us, at a swingers event. And yet, because we were open enough to explore this situation, we opened ourselves up to this incredible lady.

Isn’t the world a crazy, wild ride?

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Naughty Keekah

Posted by mmkeekah on July 28, 2008

I just crossed another one of these sexual things off this list here.

Bet ya can’t guess which one!

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Thirty Sexual Things To Do Before You’re Thirty

Posted by mmkeekah on July 3, 2008

Borrowed from His Little Slut, a list of naughty things to do before you hit the big 3-0.

I crossed off the ones I’ve accomplished – but notice how many I didn’t cross off – and I’m hitting the big 3-6 this year! Are you surprised – or not?

(On a side note, I think 36 is so sexy! I’ve looked forward to 36 for awhile now…)

1. If you’re straight, kiss someone of the same gender. If you’re gay, kiss someone of the opposite sex. Hey, you never know until you try.

2. Do it in a bathroom stall at a bar.

3. Amass a collection of sex toys to pleasure yourself – and your partners – with.

4. Learn how to bring yourself to orgasm in less than three minutes.

5. Have at least one steamy vacation fling with someone who doesn’t speak your language.

6. Pee on someone, or get peed on.

7. Have all your favorite smut sites bookmarked and ready at the touch of a button.

8. Give or get anal sex the right way (i.e. without being wasted, with lots of lube!)

9. Master the art of mind-blowing head.

10. Have sex on ecstasy.

11. Have a fuck buddy on retainer.

12. Have steamy sex with an ex.

13. For the ladies: Buy sexy lingerie just for yourself, and wear it alone when you’re feeling frisky.

14. Stop comparing your sex life with your friends’. I’ve actually never done this…

15. Ask for the brand of condoms you want in a loud voice at the drugstore with no shame.

16. Let someone tie you up.

17. Turn down sex with someone you dig – just to make ’em wait.

18. Sleep with a much younger person (nobody underage, perv).

19. Sleep with someone much older.

20. Get tested for STDs – and do it on a regular basis.

21. Visit a strip club or peep show with your partner.

22. Masturbate in your office bathroom.

23. Have sex with someone you hate but think is hot.

24. Make another person’s fantasy come true.

25. Try at least one Internet date.

26. Use a webcam to get down and dirty with a faraway friend.

27. Have sex in the ocean.

28. Give a sexual favor to get backstage.

29. Swallow (sans gagging or protesting).

30. Be the one to not call the next day – or ever.

Which ones have you done so far?

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Doing It Like Insects

Posted by mmkeekah on January 12, 2008

Actual conversation:

Him: That was great sex last night.

Me: I think my angle was wrong when you were fucking me from behind.

Him: I knew it had to be your fault cause I was just fucking. That was my job.

We both laugh.

Him: I was just trying to recreate New Year’s Eve… our legs were locked like insects. It was great.

Me: Oh well, I came twice last night… that’s all that matters.

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It’s A Submissive Thang…

Posted by mmkeekah on November 16, 2007

Actual Conversation:

Me: You should read TBK’s blog. It’s a story about a Dom and his submissive. It’s hot.

Him: Sounds it.

Me: You used to be interested in that kind of thing.

Him: I still find aspects of it appealing.

Me: Which aspects?

Him: The helplessness.

Me: You hate not being in control.

Him: Hence my dilemma.

Me: I’ve only managed to get you in that uncompromising position twice. And one time you threw up.

Him: (laughter)

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The Right Step

Posted by mmkeekah on September 28, 2007

Actual conversation:

Him: Hm.

Me: What?

Him: The condoms came with an instructional sheet.

Me: Really? That’s funny.

Him: You will never in a million years guess what step one is – go ahead, guess!

Me: Have an erect penis?

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That’s Hot!

Posted by mmkeekah on September 21, 2007

Man oh man. I just started watching the new HBO series Tell Me You Love Me… and the sex scenes are hot! I rewound several times. Then I realized I could just put a porno in if that’s what I wanted to watch, so I let the show continue. Heh.

Although the boobies in this show are amazing. God I love women!

Seriously though, this show is off to a good start in my book. Three relationships, three different issues highlighted and an older – and I do mean older – psychiatrist who sees them all then goes home and has sex with her own very matured husband/lover.

Man I so hope I’m this lady at her age. I want to be sexing it up until I die!

To echo Paris (yes I’m slightly horrified at this), That’s Hot!

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