Actual Conversation:
Me: You should read TBK’s blog. It’s a story about a Dom and his submissive. It’s hot.
Him: Sounds it.
Me: You used to be interested in that kind of thing.
Him: I still find aspects of it appealing.
Me: Which aspects?
Him: The helplessness.
Me: You hate not being in control.
Him: Hence my dilemma.
Me: I’ve only managed to get you in that uncompromising position twice. And one time you threw up.
Him: (laughter)
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Glad you thought that story was hot! A lot of people were uncomfortable by it – it was too hardcore for them, so it actually turned them off. I thought it was totally hot but I wouldn’t be able to handle that level of BDSM – yet.