Comments on: Live With Your Own Choices http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/ Life. It's just one damn thing after another. Thu, 05 Jan 2012 07:15:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: mmkeekah http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4446 Thu, 20 Dec 2007 02:37:53 +0000 http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4446 Thanks, Heather. Big old hugs back at ya girly!

]]> By: Heather http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4439 Wed, 19 Dec 2007 03:33:53 +0000 http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4439 It is amazing at the simplest of things that we ask of our so called friends make them fly off at the handle and make us to be the bad person when in the end all we asked of them was to consider our feelings in the process. Maybe there are people out there that cannot see what they do to others and when they are confronted by them they turn it around to make it our fault because they do not want to see themselves for who they really are.

I have been thinking of my friend a lot lately. I usually spend Christmas Eve with her and it is going to be the first Christmas that I don’t have her in my life. And as a part of me knows that is it healthier for me that I don’t it still kills me to know that the friendship is ruined because of something so easy as saying could you please see it from my shoes. Even though our situation is very different from one another’s the end result is the same. We both have lost something that we thought was very dear to our hearts and that could withstand time.

You were not in the wrong for asking her to not talk about your ex so much. And if she were to stay that a group of us went to Sing Sings and had a really great night that is sparing your feelings and she still gets to tell you about her weekend. There is a way to be considerate of one another without lying. She just could not understand your hurt because she did not care to understand it.

Monica your heart is sooo big and full of love and understanding and a person that cannot take your feelings into consideration is not a friend or someone that deserves you!

Heather

]]> By: mmkeekah http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4310 Thu, 22 Nov 2007 03:07:22 +0000 http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4310 Thanks, Mandie.

Just so you know, the fact that you like my blog means a lot to me. A LOT!

]]> By: Mandie http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4308 Wed, 21 Nov 2007 21:51:35 +0000 http://anexistentialkeekah.com/2007/11/15/live-with-your-own-choices/#comment-4308 MonMon
First of all I LOVE your blog. Secondly, your friend is not a friend if she felt the need to talk about your ex to you. That is someone who purposely wants to hurt your feelings. I can’t understand why she would want to do that. Given that we all have ups and downs with our friends, but a best friend shouldn’t feel the need to be so darn mean. I say to hell with her – you do not need people like that in your life. You are way too good for her. Hugs to you.

]]>